I've been more-or-less diagnosed with adult ADHD at 33. My psychiatrist said that, if I weren't "too smart," it would be an easy to say I've got ADHD. My psychiatrist wants to medicate and my therapist won't comment. I'm already on 450mg of generic wellbutrin...
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Career Change Filter: I've decided to change careers, but don't know when. Should I do it now, or should I wait and work more on my social life. Any advice appreciated. I'm a 25-year old, single male currently in a job that I dislike. The actual work...
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What are some best practices for taking a relationship from long distance to not? I'm sure many MeFites have been in this situation... my long distance relationship (yes, we met online) is about to become short distance. Person A is moving across the...
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Can I train myself to not to obsess about some (slightly) pesky barking dogs? There's a small farm next door, and a little house where the caretaker lives with her 3 dogs. Our property is separated by a small forested gully, and there's roughly 350 feet...
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Help me catch a thief in the act. Things have been going missing from my sister's home: jewellery, cash, a Nintendo DS. This has been happening over a period of time and it's become obvious that the thief must be somebody she knows. My sister's husband...
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Need advice from people who've dealt with pseudonyms. I use a genuine sounding pseudonym for my benign hobby, but my regular name for work & social events. Want to take hobby to a semi-professional level soon, so I want to get my identity issues...
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What in your opinion is the most difficult, impressive, or character-demonstrating community volunteer work? I have to write a feature for my college newspaper. We do features on volunteer work pretty often, but their impact seems to be decreasing. They...
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Can mere arousal make my urine cloudy? From time to time in my life, I have been close to girls that I really liked a lot, and though I'm not "turned on" in terms of an erection, there is definitely some sort of deeper sexual arousal happening. I am...
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Should I feel bad about wanting to have anal sex? We've been together a very long time, love each other very much. I really really want to have anal sex with her. But everytime I bring it up, she changes the subject. She never says "no," but she always...
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Would medicinal use of marijuana help me? For the last couple of years on an irregular basis i have had horrible stomach aches. I don't know how to explain them. What i can say is that have had really bad gas before, and it pales in comparison, they...
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How do I stop myself from having thoughts of self-sabotaging my relationship and being really insecure? I think I need therapy. How do I choose a therapist? Basically when I am with my boyfriend everything is wonderful. He is outrageously caring and...
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Hi, of course YANMD, but I am a 48 year old man, who the other night, was walking back from the kitchen in a pair of those sort of comfy pajama pants (sorta like flannell) looking out the window, when I turned left too fast and total scraped my left...
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Sources of info and advice on being the submissive of a BDSM relationship? (NSFW) I've just entered into a relationship where things in bed are leaning more towards BDSM than I've previously experienced... and apparently still quite tame compared to...
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Can I register my car (and renew my license) in New York before I move there? I’m moving to New York State in August for graduate school. My car registration expires in April, and my license will expire in June. I’d just renew them normally, but...
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Much confusion over a rabies vaccination prescription that seems to ignore all official (WHO, CDC) recommendations. Advice appreciated. Apologies in advance for incoherence. The medical system here is very frustrating, particularly if you are a single...
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A job I recently applied for responded to me with a questionnaire about my experience in certain areas. After filling out the questionnaire and emailing it back to the company's HR Rep I realized I misspelled a fairly common word, it was a stupid typo...
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Should I date a 42-year-old man who still lives with his parents? About three months ago I started dating a 42-year-old man who still lives at home with his parents. He has never not lived with them. From what I've observed, they seem to treat each other...
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Right attitude to annoying co-workers? I work as an IT personnel at a small office in a foreign country in Europe. I am there only since 12 month, and never been there before in my life neither have I speak the language. A friend of me has suggested...
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I don't understand how to choose a partner. I know versions of this question have been asked here a lot, but they seem to usually focus on one specific scenerio. I'm confused about this issue overall - not specific to one person. I've had several serious,...
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A scene from the protest in Sheikh Jarrah (Photo: Yotam Ronen/ Activestills.org) Last night’s huge demonstration against the Israeli government’s program of Judaizing East Jerusalem, which took place at Sheikh Jarrah, looks to me like it could become...
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My support group is having some drama that is making me uncomfortable. The leader is involved with the drama, so I don't feel I can go to them. I still feel the group is beneficial for me, should I stick it out? I'm in a support group that is very small...
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My girlfriend feels sorry for her ex. He contacts her several times per day, she replies because she feels sorry for him. I am paranoid... should I learn to relax? Firstly, the guy lives on the other side of the states and cannot visit her often, so...
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Am I experiencing "bully feelings"? I feel like slapping my coworker for being so insecure. I'm sure I come off as a total bitch with that headline, but please note I do not plan on acting on my feelings, I'd just like to understand them better. I have...
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Can you recommend a child support lawyer for the Hamilton County/Cincinnati area? I need a child support lawyer in the Hamilton County/Cincinnati area. I am the non-custodial parent (dad) of a teenager and I need a lawyer to help with a situation that...
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I am asexual (I think) but I still get strong feelings for people. Should I still pursue relationships? I'm a 23-year-old female, and in the past few years I've decided that I'm most likely asexual. I get attracted to people (almost always men, but there...
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A few weeks ago I reduced my alcohol intake from way too much to nearly nothing. I feel a lot better. But can I ever feel all the way "normal" again? I wasted a lot of my 20s. I used to drink to excess every weekend, quiet benders that blurred Friday...
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I am very confident that I have SPD and that is causing me great internal psychological pain. How do I best act on this realization? I am 25, male, and diagnosed (I believe correctly) Bipolar. I definitely have had at least 2 serious Manias, some serious...
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How do I deal with a friend and coworker when she has a grudge is making her act immature and difficult to be around? Coworker A is a woman in her late 20's and very high-strung. At first I found her kind of abrasive, but have grown fairly close to her....
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